How is your most intimate relationship? Are you struggling to keep things going, or maybe even contemplating a breakup or divorce? What has led you to this place, and what, if anything, can you do to get you back on track to a fulfilling, loving relationship? If you’re not sure, then you definitely need to keep reading!
We all seek the fulfillment of intimate relationships, and as human beings we are made for love and connection. Few things in life can give us the deep sense of joy and fulfillment that can come from a loving relationship.
We all want the perfect relationship; alas, there is no such thing. Relationships are messy. It's how we deal with the messiness that makes the difference between a relationship filled with passion, growth, depth, and joy, and one mired in negative patterns of anger, blame, and boredom.
How many times at the end of a relationship have you said, “I gave them everything.” The truth is, you gave them everything except what they needed! So how do you know? Unfortunately, we’re not taught how to understand and meet each other’s needs in the ways that will lead to true connection, trust, and lasting love. |
I can teach you the techniques to truly know your own and your partner’s needs, and to find positive vehicles for meeting those needs! Human Needs Psychology tells us that there are 6 Basic Human Needs. It’s how we place those needs in order of importance in our lives, and the vehicles we use to meet those needs, that drive our decisions and actions. Knowing that information is like having the key to understanding your partner. If you can meet two of another person’s needs, you create a connection. If you can meet four of their needs, you |